How To Rebuild Trust In Relationship ?
Trust in ones partner is a key to happy and successful married life. One finds happiness at home. Though these days major part of time is spent in office and on traveling, still peaceful and loving atmosphere at home results in having fresh mind. This way one can have sound sleep and be in a condition to work next day. If things are peaceful there is a desire to return home early. Otherwise one will try to spend maximum time outside. Lack of trust often results in disturbed life and even divorce.
The following suggestions can be considered to increase trust and make rebuild broken relationship:
Admission of one’s fault and seeking forgiveness is the best method of patch up. Often one person is the cause of discontentment for the other. As a result of the fault of the other spouse a cold attitude is developed. If the guilty party realises his/her fault and decides not to repeat it, the problem will be solved. Both husband and wife should discuss the problem and contribute suggestions to avoid repetition of the problem.
Flirting is another cause of broken relationship. If the cause has been ascertained amongst the couple best is to avoid a place where such thing can occur. Avoid going to parties where young unknown people are invited and intoxicants are freely served. Accountability is a must to mend the broken relationship. This can be with frequent discussion, regular talk or by counselling by friends or experts.
Supporting role of the aggrieved person is a must to mend the broken or strained relationship. The wrong doer should accept the fault and should not repeat it. The other partner should never be considered inferior. There is a tendency in some males to think that they superior. Wives are considered inferior to them. This is cause of discord which slowly grows. Sometimes even senior members of the family for the sake of their security try to create rift between husband and wife. Both the parties should try to understand this. If there is change in attitude of offender, the offended should not keep grudge of the past happenings. Celebrating success, birthdays, anniversaries and other social functions together will contribute to a great extent in patch up. Trust is a pride possession. If due to some misunderstanding it is reduced in married life, ensure that it is built up, as trust will make life of both the partners happy.