How To Read Body Language Of Attraction ?

There are various ways of communication. These can be in writing or by word of mouth or body language. Often people who meet for the first time, or even if they have had only a few meetings, are not very verbal. Here body language plays an important role in communicating. The signals are often strong and clear for anyone to understand.

Eye contact is the signal of not only expression of interest but also of acceptance. If you find someone looking at you directly or through the corner of the eye, be assured of interest. Respond with a brief eye contact followed by looking down. Smile associated with eye contact is a strong signal of interest in the other person. Your acceptance can also be judged by the way the other person looks, at you even if from another room. Repeated looking and gazing away, along with blushing means interest.

Verbal talk with a person for the first time will not give you that clear a signal as body language will. By actions and expressions you can easily judge the response.

Position of the body is helpful to understand others. Person interested in you will face you directly. If due to some reason he is unable to do so, the body will be angled towards you. Dilation of pupils is another sign of expression of interest. Expert sales-man can judge the interest of customer from eyes. These are not intended but subconscious.

While engaged in conversation things like open palm facing upwards, playing with hair, swirling around fingers etc., reflects expression of interest of women. Similarly, men will play with tie, shirt button or wipe the face while standing straight will be expression of interest. When in sitting position, direction of knees and legs are strong signals, open legs give positive signals whereas crossed legs or arms, or hands stuffed in pocket give signal of uneasiness.

Other signals of interest can be tilting of head to one side while listening, licking of lips, biting of lower lip, touch looking unintended at safe parts, and imitation are sure signals of liking.

It is not very easy to judge the other person at one go. Development of judgement will take quite some time and effort. Being in a different state of mind those looking for love may make mistakes in judgement of interest from body language, they should exercise caution and arrive at a conclusion only after understanding body language associated with verbal communication.