Good Dating Conversation Advice For Starters
Date give a chance to two people to converse and come to know each other. Dating culminates in a relationship only for those persons who have found some common interest and understanding. It is at this stage one may consider having open discussions. However, one should be cautious during first few meeting. Effort should be to be clear and try to understand the other as far as possible. Both conversation and body language plays an important role in helping two people to pull along.
The following can be the golden rules of conversation:
After formal greeting and brief introduction try discussing points which are of common interest to both. If previously ascertained, it will be easy to carry on, otherwise try to find and discuss. It is of utmost importance that your date should realise your interest in him. For this ask about hobbies, job, school, subjects of interest. Never discuss each other’s family in the beginning, this can follow later.
Other things to talk about can be movies, clubs, food and restaurants. These can help you fix up a venue for next date. It is essential that the date should get proper compliments from you. Do not indulge in excessive flattery or use sugar coated language. Be polite and clear. Most important being never enter into an argument even if you have some minor differences. Visit to a new or unique place can be a topic of discussion of interest to both.
After discussing positive aspects it is essential to discuss negatives. These can include the following:
Early dates are meant to develop acquaintance between the two. Never start discussion about two families or marriage proposal, these will come much later. Since marriage is not to be discussed early, liking for children and timing of having them will need to wait still longer. Discussing about having kids at initial stages will mean no more meetings. Never discuss your earlier relationship with someone else and never ever in the beginning ask your date about previous relationships. Even at a later time if there is unwillingness to discuss this by any one avoid, and tell to forget the past.
Don’t ever try to interrogate the other or tell wrong facts about you as things will be clear at a later time and can be a cause of misunderstandings.
Follow simple rules of conversation. Never interrupt the other while talking. Give equal time to talk as you would like to have. Even in case of disagreement don’t get rash, try to explain and be understanding. Proper language and gestures are essential.